and there’s no struggle? You’re being too gentle.
If she can walk afterwards; you’re being too gentle. If she had mascara, and it’s not running down her face; you’re being too gentle. If she’s not marked by your hand, teeth, and belt for the rest of the week; you’re being too fucking gentle.
If you never once have to drag her into position, throw her around, or pick her up when she tries to scarper; then you’re probably being too gentle with that cunt.